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Crossroads

4/30/2010

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So many times I have asked myself whenever I reached a crossroad in my life; which way do I go? Do I follow the road that everybody walks on or do I follow what my heart tells me to?

Some crossroads that I have reached in the past had been easy ones because there was somebody guiding me. There was somebody who walked ahead of me to make sure that I followed his lead. There was somebody who walked behind me to protect me from being pushed or shoved. But through the years I will always remember that somebody who took my hand and walked with me, passing that crossroad while whispering kind words to ease the fear that he saw in my eyes.

But there came a day when I suddenly stopped as I reached another crossroad. I looked around but there was nobody in sight. I felt the thumping of my heart and the weakening of my knees. I felt so alone. I thought to myself, can I do this? I looked around once again hoping that somebody would be there. There was nobody. I took a deep breath and thought real hard which way to go. Finally, it was time to make a decision. As I started taking my steps towards the path I felt was the right one, I was thinking, that whatever happens, at least I did it on my own. As I reached the other side of the road, I turned around, looked back and I began to smile. I made it! I have passed the crossroad by myself.

From then on, I have done a lot of walking, running, stumbling and at the same time trying to keep myself from being pushed or shoved as I found my path in those crossroads. Along the way, I also learned to step aside and give way, to lead, to walk behind someone. Most importantly, I learned to lend a hand to somebody who I felt was in the same boat I was in sometime in the past - when I was not sure of what to do or which way to follow.

Now, I am faced again with this crossroad of life and I ask myself; do I follow my guide or do I follow my heart?
20 Comments
gillboard link
4/29/2010 11:25:13 pm

ok lang yan ahmer... basta if you need someone to talk to... madami kami pwede mo makausap...

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Jepoy link
4/30/2010 12:00:39 am

Follow the guide. You will do great buddy :-D

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glentot link
4/30/2010 12:35:21 am

Inuman na lang.

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4/30/2010 12:25:48 pm

Hi Ahmer, like you, I have always relied on someone to help me through the crossroads. There's always someone behind or in front of me to keep me from falling, to guide me to the light. I think I've never been alone in my life cos I dread that.

Just follow your heart Ahmer. In following your heart, make sure you consult your brain too. It's okay to make mistakes, there must be a reason for that.

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4/30/2010 10:37:44 pm

Musta parekoy!

Walang kuwentang dumaan doon sa kalsadang dinadaanan ng karamihan; piliin mo 'yung kalsadang walang nagtatangkang dumaan dahil for sure, magmamarka doon ang bakas mong maiiwan.

Just my two cents ^_^

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citybuoy link
5/1/2010 07:11:38 pm

i think it's always a good idea to follow your heart. i guess accountability plays a big role here.

BTW, i love the metaphor.

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mike
5/2/2010 01:15:41 am

one great post we have here.

just think of this, every crossroad we meet is a new beginning. it's a time to start anew and to correct the things we have done in the past.

good luck and you will see the light at the end of the tunnel soon, ahmer.

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YJ link
5/2/2010 01:34:31 pm

kung saan ako pumunta, sunod ka...

ahihihihihi

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5/2/2010 07:32:27 pm

always, always follow your heart

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5/2/2010 09:39:20 pm

pumili ka ng daan kung saan ka masaya

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5/3/2010 11:32:35 pm

follow your instinct... may it be right or wrong it's okay... we'll continue learning...

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5/4/2010 02:51:08 pm

follow your heart.

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